Mastering Conference Packing: The Empowered Guide to Versatility, Confident Choices, and Stress-Free Travel

Are you a woman in leadership gearing up for an important conference? It's time to show up authentically, with a wardrobe that reflects your unique style and empowers you to make a lasting impression. Here I’ll guide you through the process of packing for a conference, focusing on versatile choices, confident decision-making, stress-free travel… AND avoiding the last-minute panic! Get ready to unleash your power and embrace authenticity as you navigate the conference scene.

Stick to Two Colors for Versatility:

To maximize the versatility of your conference wardrobe, start by choosing two core colors that resonate with your personal style. Consider empowering tones like teal, burgundy, hunter green, or even prints that reflect your unique personality. These colors will serve as the foundation for your outfits, allowing you to create a cohesive and impactful look. To complement your chosen tones, it's also helpful to incorporate neutral shades like navy, blush, or camel. These neutrals can easily mix and match with your empowering colors, giving you endless possibilities for creating stylish and confident ensembles. By sticking to a cohesive color palette, you'll not only simplify your packing process but also have a wide range of outfit combinations at your fingertips, ensuring that you always look and feel your best throughout the conference.

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! An image coach for high acheiving women helping your style match your success. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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Layer Layer Layer

it's important to be prepared for varying temperatures, especially with those chilly conference venues and their relentless air conditioning. To stay comfortable and adaptable, make sure to include a selection of layering pieces in your suitcase. Lightweight cardigans, a moto jacket or a wrap are fantastic options that can be effortlessly added or removed as needed. Not only will they provide an extra layer of warmth, but they also add a touch of style to your outfits

Start With The Shoes

As a driven woman comfort is non-negotiable, especially when you're on your feet for long hours. Begin packing by selecting comfortable yet polished shoes that will keep you looking and feeling confident throughout the event, since they will take up the most space in your bag as well.  Think about every situation you’ll be in when deciding.  And remember a great shoe can be the perfect conversation starter.

Embrace Accessoires

Accessories can elevate your conference outfits and add a personal touch. Select a few statement pieces like a bold necklace, elegant scarf, or tasteful earrings that complement your chosen color palette. Don't forget a structured handbag or tote to hold your essentials and documents in style.

Avoid Panic Shopping and Panic Packing

Panic shopping and packing often lead to hasty choices and items that may not serve you well in the long run. Instead, plan your outfits in advance and try them on to ensure they fit well and make you feel confident. Stick to your chosen color scheme and mix and match your pieces to create various looks. Remember, quality choices over quantity will serve you best.

Traveling with Confidence

As a woman in leadership, you may find yourself in male-dominated spaces. Embrace your unique identity and approach each conference with agency, self-trust, and self-reliance. Allow your wardrobe choices to amplify your message and assert your presence. Pack essentials like comfortable yet stylish shoes that can withstand long days, and don't forget to carry yourself with the knowledge that you deserve to be seen and heard.

Always remember a conference is an opportunity to express your authentic self and make empowered choices. Your clothes shouldn't define you, but they can enhance your confidence and help you make a lasting impact. Embrace the joy of dressing, trust yourself to make empowered choices, and let your style reflect the driven and highly-intelligent woman you are. Now, go out there as you conquer the conference with authenticity and flair!

Ready to stop panicking at every invite… whether it’s a conference or a dinner with friends?

It’s time to replace bad habits with smart wardrobe decisions and have guide a style that reflects your true self. If so, I have a special invitation for you! 

I’m looking for 3 women who want to demystify getting dressed and understand exactly which colors, shapes, styles, and proportions are best for you using the clothes in your closet - all in the next 30-60 days.

If that sounds like you, message me over on instagram (@melanielippman) by clicking HERE with the word EMPOWERED and I'll share the details on how to get started. 

If you find getting dressed to be a challenge and often feel like you have a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear, go grab my FREE guide

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AND EXACTLY HOW TO SOLVE THEM SO YOUR STYLE MATCHES YOUR SUCCESS

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Style Myths Busted: Unleashing the Power of White in Professional Fashion

Everything you've been told about wearing white is WRONG!

Okay, let's set the record straight about wearing white. All those myths and misconceptions? Total nonsense. It's time to break free from the fashion industry's tricks and embrace the beauty of white this summer.

FASHION MYTH: WHITE MAKES YOU LOOK BIGGER

Oh boy, have we been fed this lie for ages... white makes you look larger, dark colors are slimming... so don't wear white, white show every lump and bump, so avoid it all costs!

Those magazines we read when we were teenagers were only giving us half of the truth, but have shaped how we wear or don't wear white our whole lives. But let me tell you, that's only half the story.

Here's the whole truth:

DARK COLORS RECEDE AND LIGHT COLORS ADVANCE 
Light-colored clothing will draw the eye and stand out, making the area it’s covering appear prominent and larger.

How to make that fact work for you:

If you're worried about a specific area, don't pair white with a darker color there. Instead, opt for lighter shades that blend seamlessly. By creating a cohesive, balanced look, you won't draw unnecessary attention to any particular spot. It's all about finding the right balance and playing with complementary tones.

Need some inspiration? Here are a few ideas to help you rock white without highlighting specific areas:

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! An image coach for high acheiving women helping your style match your success. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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WEAR WHITE WITH A BLAZER THAT HAS SOME WHITE

In order to create that continuous column of white in an outfit, wear a blazer that has white in it paired with white pants. This way the eye will see only light colors and notice the complete look.

GO FOR AN ALL-WHITE ENSEMBLE

Embrace the monochromatic magic and wear white from head to toe. Trust me, it's a statement that oozes confidence and style. A jumpsuit the the perfect way to achieve this look. Check out a few here:

FASHION MYTH: WHITE IS NOT APPROPRIATE FOR PROSFESSIONAL SETTINGS

We've been conditioned to believe that white is reserved for casual occasions or that it's too risky for the workplace. Being given all sorts of reasons why we shouldn't wear white… everything from it gets dirty easily, it can be see-through, and specific times of year that white is inappropriate.

While white is a little high maintenance, the risk of wearing white often doesn’t outweigh the reward.

Here's the whole truth:

One of the most powerful aspects of wearing white is the aura of confidence it exudes. There's something undeniably striking about a woman who confidently rocks an all-white ensemble. It commands attention and radiates a sense of poise and self-assurance. So, embrace the power of white, own your unique style, and step into any room with your head held high.

White, a color often associated with purity, clarity, and neutrality, carries a powerful symbolism that transcends mere fashion. Let’s not forget when Hillary Clinton stepped onto the stage of the 2016 Democratic National Convention. Draped in a white pantsuit, she made a powerful statement, representing unity, hope, and the breaking of barriers. Clinton's choice to wear white echoed the suffragettes of the early 20th century, using white as a symbol of their fight for women's rights and the right to vote.

Need some inspiration? Here are a few ideas to help you wear white professionally sending messages of confidence, clarity, and neutrality:

ATTENTION TO TAILORING:

Pay attention to the fit, tailoring, and finishing of your white garments. A well-fitted white dress or a perfectly tailored white blazer can make a world of difference, exuding professionalism and attention to detail. A well tailored blazer is a great addition to your professional wardrobe:

PLAY WITH TEXTURE:

Incorporate textured white fabrics like lace, eyelet, or tweed to add depth and visual interest to your outfit. Textures can elevate the sophistication level and create a refined and polished appearance.

So, my fellow power players, let's challenge the notion that white is off-limits in professional settings. Embrace the power of white and unleash your unique style with confidence. Make a bold statement, stand out from the crowd, and show the world that professionalism and individuality can go hand in hand.

Are you ready to make power moves with white? Let's redefine what it means to be a trailblazer in the workplace. Step into your office with style, confidence, and the power of white on your side. Your presence will be unforgettable, and your career will thank you for it!

If you find getting dressed to be a challenge and often feel like you have a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear, go grab my FREE guide

5 OUTFIT MISTAKES KEEPING YOU FEELING FRUMPY & FRUSTRATED

AND EXACTLY HOW TO SOLVE THEM SO YOUR STYLE MATCHES YOUR SUCCESS

(WITHOUT NEEDING TO LOSE LBS)

How to Dress Business Casual in the Summer

What exactly is business casual?

A common reason that someone comes to work with me is because they are struggling to feel polished when not wearing a suit and feel a little too casual in their day to day.

Which is completely understandable because there is no clear definition of what business casual dress is…

Business casual is typically defined as no jeans, no shorts, no short dresses or skirts for women, optional ties for men, and a rotation of button-downs or blouses.

Business casual dressing is more about avoiding a list of "don'ts" than following a list of "dos" and can vary slightly depending on style, preference, and who you are meeting with that day.

The lack of clarity around this leaves women that like following rules and never want to be caught off guard feeling unsettled spending a lot of time attempting to figure out what to wear.

Instead of a list of don'ts, here are a few business casual ideas for summer.

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! An image coach for high acheiving women helping your style match your success. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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JUMPSUITS

Jumpsuits are perfect for business casual, just like the one my client Melissa wore for her photoshoot. They have a little more personality than a suit and you can remove the blazer if you going out after work.

TO THE KNEE SKIRTS

While the length and tightness may vary depending on your practice area, skirts that reach about knee-length (or below) are always safe. In terms of color, business casual doesn't have too many restrictions... so have fun with color!

SHORTS SUITS

There’s a little controversy with this one, but I love them! Shorts suit were spotted last year and are back again in a big way! All I can say is know you audience and what makes you feel confident, because in order to pull this one off you need to OWN THE LOOK! A great place to try out a short suit is at a retreat or a women’s conference.

COLORFUL PANTS

Colorful pants are the perfect way to add interest to an outfit and a business casual setting the perfect time to try them. I suggest buying a pair that has a color you have in a few printed tops so you are not just wearing them with a black top and calling that an outfit.

As with everything when it comes to getting dressed, there are so many options out there that it can often feel overwhelming and intimidating. Instead of feeling like there are too many options and just stick with your not very exciting outfits… I encourage you to pick one of the above and give it a try! Let me know which you are going to try by sending me a message over on instagram by clicking here.

If you find getting dressed to be a challenge and often feel like you have a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear, go grab my FREE guide

5 OUTFIT MISTAKES KEEPING YOU FEELING FRUMPY & FRUSTRATED

AND EXACTLY HOW TO SOLVE THEM SO YOUR STYLE MATCHES YOUR SUCCESS

(WITHOUT NEEDING TO LOSE LBS)

How to trade in your skinny jeans for straight leg jeans

I know that you've heard a time or two that skinny jeans are no longer in-style. If you've been around me for any amount of time, you know I'm not one a fan of being a trend victim and to always wear what's suited for you.

That being said.... skinny jeans are not flattering on a lot of women.

But a lot of women have kept wearing them, because they knew how to wear them.

May I introduce Mom Jeans...  Mom jeans are typically straight-leg, high waisted jeans, and often a light or mid wash color.

A big outfit struggle I hear when introducing a new jean style is which shoe to wear with the jean. Here’s a breakdown of what shoes work well with mom jeans.

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! An image coach for high acheiving women helping your style match your success. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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SHOES WITH STRAIGHT JEANS: LOAFERS

 I love my loafer mules – they’re a super versatile pair of shoes that you can wear for work, everyday, church, date night, or anything. You can choose a pair of loafers that aren’t slip-on, but mom jeans and straight leg jeans absolutely work with any style of loafers.

SHOES WITH STRAIGHT LEG JEANS: LOW CUT SNEAKERS

Sneakers are great choice to wear with mom jeans! Choose ones that are low cut and slim to help elongate your leg line and show some ankle.

SHOES WITH STRAIGHT LEG JEANS: FLAT SANDALS

Of course, flat sandals work with everything! They’re a great choice with mom jeans or straight leg jeans during the spring and summer when it’s hot. Just skip the flip flops and choose a pair of sandals that are a little nicer.

SHOES WITH STRAIGHT JEANS: HEELED SANDALS

You can absolutely dress up your mom and straight leg jeans! Just throw on a blouse and some block heel sandals for a chic and semi-dressed up feel.

Shoes are often an often an afterthought, but typically one of the biggest reasons women struggle to get dressed each morning. They also play a crucial role in completing your overall look and can greatly impact your comfort and confidence throughout the day.

If you find getting dressed to be a challenge and often feel like you have a closet full of clothes and nothing to wear, go grab my FREE guide

5 OUTFIT MISTAKES KEEPING YOU FEELING FRUMPY & FRUSTRATED

AND EXACTLY HOW TO SOLVE THEM SO YOUR STYLE MATCHES YOUR SUCCESS

(WITHOUT NEEDING TO LOSE LBS)

Using your Personal Style as a Tool

I often speak about the power of using your personal style and developing a signature style brand to engage and develop trust. I give examples of iconic women that we would know who they are without even seeing their faces… women like Jackie O, Kate Middleton, and Michelle Obama.

Of course these women have and have had access to experts, stylists, designers, and aren’t limited by much of a budget; but they have more than that. The realized that fashion is more than the clothes they put on their body… they use clothing as a strategic tool!

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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The Clothes We Wear Sends Signals

Your clothing sends out all sorts of messages and you want to make sure those messages are aligned with who you are & your goals! The colors, structure, and patterns of your clothes send messages about your personality and your overall tone.

Let’s use another female in politics as an example… or at least on TV … If you think of Robin Wright's character on House of Cards, Claire Underwood.. her style was a main character on the show. When the show first started out, prior to her husband being in the White House, she could be found in understated looks that wasn’t too flashy. But when Claire began her official duties as first lady, the clothing choices began to shift. She started wearing clothes that were very tailored and structured…. signaling that she is very confident and always [seemed] to be in control of herself. She also stopped wearing muted tones and wore jade green and burgundy.

In the show’s final season, Claire in full Madam President mode, stepped out in sharp dress suits befitting the most powerful person in the world. The buttoned-up, stretchy wool-crepe attire often embraces an appropriate presidential blue conveying the seriousness of a military commander ready for war. It’s a stark contrast to Claire’s early days of playing the supporting role to her power-hungry husband Francis Underwood

How Can You Start Using Your Clothes as a Tool? 

The great thing about our clothes is that they can easily be changed to either align with your brand and enhance your message, but where do you start? Well like most things… the first step is to realize that clothes are in-fact powerful and need to treated that way. You must stop throwing on random outfits without giving them much thought… and start dressing with some strategy!

Over the next few weeks I am going to break down the all of the messages that your clothes are or not sending.

It’s your turn…. Which iconic woman’s style do you love ??? Let me know by emailing me here and I help you incorporate the look into your wardrobe

If you'd like personalized, one on one help stepping out of style OVERWHELM and into your power AND ready  get to your next level... I’m inviting you to book a call with me to discuss whether my signature program, Brand Yourself with Style, is a fit for you.

Book your call now!

You’ll have 30 minutes of my undivided attention… This will be the BEST time you have EVER spent on yourself and your business.

If you feel like this is the right opportunity for you, click here, and book a call to go over your goals.

I'll walk you through the quickest and easiest way to achieve them through  Brand Yourself with Style.

Curious about how a personal stylist can help you? Let's Chat about it. 

On our call we will discuss what's holding you back from being excited about getting dressed and showing up as the leader you were born to be.  We'll discuss your personal challenges and talk about easy solutions.

Attracting Your Ideal Client through Personal Style Branding

Last week I wrote to you about why it's more important then ever to get dressed, since you are marketing yourself on social media.   

 In just 3 seconds someone decides whether they’re going to stick around to engage with you OR take off and never come back. 

If you missed this you can check it out here.

Now that we’ve established that you want to dress to command attention, How exactly do you accomplish that?

I'm so happy you asked…

 By creating a connection with your audience that immediately develops know, like, and trust through you own personal brand style.  I know what you maybe thinking… ugghhh… I don't know what my style is nor do I have the time to figure it out! 

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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1.  Defining your personal brand style in a way that makes you instantly recognizable, memorable and seen as a leader, someone to listen to, someone with natural authority.  

2. Developing your style is EASY… yup,  as easy as 3 words! 

And by doing this, you’re going to know exactly what to wear and what not to wear regardless of the occasion…

 I work with my clients to develop a 3-word personal style statement to guide them in selecting clothes and accessories and making choices about their appearance. 

You’re going to want to choose 3 words that support your brand and feel like you.

My style is friendly, polished, and fashion forward.  Which means that everything I wear has all 3 of these qualities. And you’ll notice that my website and social media has these qualities too.

It really does make shopping and dressing a whole lot easier, guiding your everyday choices so you can show up in a way that supports your message and reaffirms your status as a leader, a messenger, and perhaps even an icon.

Ideally you want at least one word that creates distinction. You don’t want all 3 words to have the same tone and texture or it doesn’t make for a distinct style.

Once you get the hang of your 3-word style statement, you’ll know what to wear for your photo shoot or on your next video.

One caveat here, make sure your style statement complements your business and your core personal attributes.

For example, if you’re an Attorney  for Fortune 500 companies, a style statement that’s outrageous, flirty, grunge may undermine your credibility or at least raise a few eyebrows.

So now let’s talk about you. Here’s a list of fashion and style words. Choose 3 that really express you!

Your personal style must make you instantly recognizable, memorable and seen as a leader, someone to listen to, someone with natural authority.

If you'd like personalized, one on one help stepping out of style OVERWHELM and into your power AND ready  get to your next level... I’m inviting you to book a call with me to discuss whether my signature program, Brand Yourself with Style, is a fit for you.

Book your call now!

You’ll have 30 minutes of my undivided attention… This will be the BEST time you have EVER spent on yourself and your business.

If you feel like this is the right opportunity for you, click here, and book a call to go over your goals.

I'll walk you through the quickest and easiest way to achieve them through  Brand Yourself with Style.

Curious about how a personal stylist can help you? Let's Chat about it. 

On our call we will discuss what's holding you back from being excited about getting dressed and showing up as the leader you were born to be.  We'll discuss your personal challenges and talk about easy solutions.

Is Getting Dressed More Important Now That You Are Working From Home?

I've been having loads of conversations about work from home outfits and been asked many times if getting dressed really matter any more. My answer is NOW more than EVER, especially if you are client facing or looking to expand your network!

Is what you wear more important now that we are working from home?

People decide within 5 seconds of meeting you if they are going to do business with you! This research shows that our brains are hard-wired to decide within 3-7 seconds of meeting, visiting your website, watching those first seconds of video, or quick scroll of an Instagram feed what they think of you.

In just 3 seconds they decide whether they’re going to stick around to engage with you OR take off and never come back.

Missing that tiny window to catch someone’s eye can be critical for your biz!  That person could work for that fortune 500 client you’ve been wanting to sign, your next success story, a new collaborator that brings you 100 new contacts... you name it!   

You never know who is going to find you and where they’ll first encounter you, so it’s imperative to present a conscious and consistent face to the world, enabling you to transform first impressions into lasting relationships and that all starts with looking the part.

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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Making those 3 seconds memorable by getting dressed

Many people put on clothes without much thought or throw together a sloppy website and think it’s okay because people are just going to recognize your brilliance through it all. Quick decisions based on limited information is the only way we have time to get anything done in this world.

The reality is — if you don’t look the part — if how you present yourself to the world doesn’t support your message and lend credibility to what you do, you’re dead in the water. No one’s going to trust you with their hard-earned money if you’re not sending signals that model your work and the transformation you promise.

So why do we all go around expecting other people will treat us differently, expecting other people will automatically get how important our message is and just see us for who we are, regardless of whether we’ve taken the time to really put ourselves out there in a way that commands their attention… to dress the part.

Your personal style must make you instantly recognizable, memorable and seen as a leader, someone to listen to, someone with natural authority.

If you'd like personalized, one on one help stepping out of style OVERWHELM and into your power AND ready  get to your next level... I’m inviting you to book a call with me to discuss whether my signature program, Brand Yourself with Style, is a fit for you.

Book your call now!

You’ll have 30 minutes of my undivided attention… This will be the BEST time you have EVER spent on yourself and your business.

If you feel like this is the right opportunity for you, click here, and book a call to go over your goals.

I'll walk you through the quickest and easiest way to achieve them through  Brand Yourself with Style.

Curious about how a personal stylist can help you? Let's Chat about it. 

On our call we will discuss what's holding you back from being excited about getting dressed and showing up as the leader you were born to be.  We'll discuss your personal challenges and talk about easy solutions.

How to attract dream clients online with your personal style

The good old boys way of marketing doesn’t speak to the savvy empowered women you want to work with… but how exactly do you connect with busy sophisticated women that you will to fill your calendar with… and could see yourself opening a bottle of wine on with on the weekend? 

When I mention online presence and marketing… you should see the look on my client’s faces, you would think I am trying to sell them some instant miracle voodoo that gets them to lose 30 lbs overnight… that’s because we have all been approached this way on social media being sold something.  But that’s not what I’m talking about.  

Now more than ever intelligent decision-making women are online look for solutions to their problems… everything from how do I get my kid to sleep in their own bed to I am being treated unfairly at work and I want to sue.  Need proof… visit any mom, keto, or Peloton facebook group… lots of support and solutions at your fingertips! 

So how are you going to connect with these fabulous women and not get lost in sea of online noise?  

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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1.   Know your ideal client

You are a version of your ideal client… you have similar fears, likes, dislikes… you may not be in the exact position as her, but you may have been there at some point in your life.   How do you want to be marketed to?  What creeps you out and what gets you wanting more? How do you like to connect with people online? What would get you to stop the scroll… a beautiful pair of shoes? A unique color combination?  A candid picture of someone reading a book by an author you love? Think of marketing as dating or becoming friends with someone… what would make you go up to someone at an event and start a conversation with them? Show this in your marketing 

2. Be Where Your Target Audience Is

The more your ideal clients get exposed to your brand, the more likely they are to follow you. That’s why you should find out where your customers spend most of their time on, be it online or offline, and then persistently interact with them in an authentic way.  

3.  Elevate Yourself through Personal Branding

As mentioned, people are attracted to those they can relate to. You can take advantage of that fact by creating a strong brand image that reflects your personality and core values. Your clothing, especially when showing pictures and videos of yourself on your website, social media, or video conference… is a huge part of your personal brand.  When our eyes land on someone we form a first impression and 55% of that first impression is based on what you are wearing.   Be sure to show your unique personality with your style to stand out.  

4.   Be Strategic and Consistent When it Comes to Style 

Develop a consistent look when it comes to your personal style.  Most people tend to think style is about always being new and different, but that is the furthest from the truth when it comes to personal branding. People develop a sense of loyalty to businesses that offer consistent quality.  Create a brand color palette and signature style for your clothing and keep on showing up in those colors and styles.  The idea is for your clients to rely on you and when they know what to expect from you… they will hire you to be their advocate.

5.   Confidently Show off Your Value With Your Clothing

What can you offer to your ideal clients? How can you make their lives more comfortable or how do you solve a problem they are continuously encountering?  You have to be confident and show up like a leader every day… not when you feel like it!  Instead of simply talking about your values, show them to them through your clothing.  If your client values innovation, you aren’t going to want to be wearing the black suit everyone else is wearing.  If your client needs you to be sympathetic, your clothing should showcase someone that is compassionate.   Know that your clothing is sending out messages and make sure they are in line with what your ideal client needs to hear! 

Now that you know how you should be showing up online… get started, don’t wait until it’s perfect… Perfection is the enemy of creativity and these days you are going to need to be creative to stand out!  

Need some help figuring out how to translate what is in your closet into your online personal brand?  That is what I’m an expert at and would love to chat with you about it… use the link below to book a call!

Curious about how a personal stylist can help you? Let's Chat about it. 

On our call we will discuss what's holding you back from being excited about getting dressed and showing up as the leader you were born to be.  We'll discuss your personal challenges and talk about easy solutions.

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How to Find Your Style When Times are Different

We are all in some sort of style rut simply because things are different.  You might have your go-to outfits for the office or when presenting in front of a group of people, but that’s not the case anymore. What’s happening for us and the world right now makes your typical outfit feel different. Your clothing needs to serve a different purpose at this moment and you need it to support you in other ways.

It’s important to still feel confident in your clothes, now more than ever. So how do you get some pep back into  your style step?

Take a look at what’s working in your closet

There are definitely a few items that you own that are in constant rotation to go out, run errands, or go to work. Maybe you’re not allowing yourself to wear them because you’re only at home. Well pull them out and let’s evaluate them!

1.      You have something, right? There is something style-wise that you have going on. You can always wear and trust those go-to items, although you probably say “I don’t have clothes that support me to feel confident in my wardrobe.”

2.     What is working about that those constant items? Is it their comfort level?  That you’re able to wash them and not take them to the cleaners? Are you gravitating towards certain colors right now? 

 Take a look at what’s not working in your closet

1.     What are you not wearing at the moment and why?  Are you not wearing it because it’s not right for this moment (you’re not wearing sheath dresses to your dining room office), or do you actually not like those pieces (if they don’t make you feel good, I give you permission to get rid of them).

2.     What do you not have enough of?  Are you wearing the same two bright-colored tops over and over again, because you are no longer wearing dresses? 

Maybe your wardrobe just needs some revamping to adjust to challenging times…

How to shop for clothing that you actually need and will wear

You should always take a look at your current closet prior to going shopping to get a true understanding of what is working and what isn’t working, so you are not shopping blindly. This will insure that your purchases will have an impact on your wardrobe as opposed to randomly buying the same thing that hasn’t worked in the past.  This will put an end to the clothes that are hanging in your closet with the tags still on them. 

Make a list of the items that you actually need

Let’s say you need a few tops to wear on zoom, a casual summer dress, and a pair of sandals that can be worn to a BBQ (you don’t want to get those heels stuck in the grass!). Write that down!

Figure out how much you are willing to spend before going shopping 

Before you start shopping, decide how much money you are willing to spend on each piece. So, “x” amount for each top, “x” amount for the dress, and “x” amount for the sandals.  

This is the key! As women, when we think of going shopping, we put ourselves in this mindset that we are going to spend too much money., so we start limiting ourselves and holding ourselves back from purchasing something that we truly love! 

Shopping for clothes doesn’t have to be expensive

Shopping can be expensive if you buy a bunch of stuff that you don’t want or need, but If you are investing wisely, it’s never wasteful. 

When you think about shopping this way it will never feel expensive.  

Shopping mindset

It is also important to see what you are willing to spend a little more on and what you’re not willing to splurge for. The items you are willing to spend more on should be the items that will have the most impact on your wardrobe, promise that’s the case! 

It’s so important to think about money when buying something. You can place a value on what each piece will do for you and your wardrobe. So, if you don’t like something that comes in the mail, simply return it instead of holding on to it just because “it’s okay.”  Giving our clothing value gives us more control when we’re buying things, but more importantly it keeps us engaged with our style and makes it purposeful. 

Spending wisely and purposefully makes our style not only look good, but feel good!

Need help shopping online reasonably? 

If this sounds like a great idea and theory but you haven’t been able to do this work on your own, YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!  This is not easy stuff to accomplish by yourself, especially when you have tons of other things going on. I’ve opened a few spots on my calendar next week for you to get on the phone to discuss how you can stop letting your clothing be a sticking point for you.  Click here to get on my calendar. 

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Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
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How to Use Your Wardrobe to Get Visible in 3 Easy Steps

There has never been a time more than now that you need to be visible.  Being visible is more than being seen… it’s about getting noticed! Something that we are not too comfortable with…. because if someone is watching, they may see us doing something that isn’t perfect 😮 and know that we are human.  

Why is being visible in your brand so important?

If you want to be seen as a leader within an organization or within your own brand, you must be visible in order to strengthen your impact and get your message out there. Get comfortable getting visible, repeatedly being vulnerable, and being sure of yourself.  

The challenge is that everyone is telling you that you must be visible but no one is telling you how to actually get noticed.

1. What is stopping your visibility?  

From a young age we have been conditioned to play “small.” We were told things like “don’t be too loud”, “don’t be a show off”, “don’t make others uncomfortable by talking about your accomplishments.”  All of these things are stored in the back of our minds, but at the same time we are thinking about getting noticed.  

What if you switch your thought process around? Try focusing on the people out there that need you and what you are putting out into the world. If you are not telling them how you can help them and making a big deal about it, they are never going to know you are here to support them. 

Personally, I know that I don’t usually put emails that I receive from clients about their amazing transformations on social media because I don’t want to come off as a show-off.  That was until I received a follow up message from a client asking why her testimonial wasn’t posted. Of course I got embarrassed and told her my rationale.  She made me realize that I was actually being selfish by not sharing it, because I wasn’t telling other women that they are not alone, and showing them that I can help them.

Focus on the people that need to know you are there to support them!

2. Surround yourself with other people that are focused on visibility 

Do you ever feel like your friends and family just don’t understand what you do and the message you are putting out into the world? I certainly do!

I’ve spent hours obsessing over a social media post… tearing my heart out, being vulnerable and sharing a hard story to tell, with the hopes that it will help my followers feel not alone when they are feeling alone… only to get a “cute shoes” comment from a friend on my post and a direct message asking a question that had nothing to do with my post.

Your friends and family are not your audience and won’t understand how to market your brand!  They are not going to be able to tell you if your Facebook live is on-point, and they are not your dream client.  Stop trying to explain what your job is to them and start surrounding yourself with other women that understand your career path, visibility and what it takes to get noticed.

A group of women with common goals can support each other like no one else!

3. Use your wardrobe to excite you about getting visible

Make visibility fun with your clothes so you can take some steps to get excited about being seen! Use the energy that you get from wearing the clothing that you love and feel confident about getting noticed! 

If you’re hosting a webinar…. wear your favorite dress and throw on your sexy heels. Even if no one will see them, you will know they are on and they will boost your confidence! 

Launching a new program? Get excited for it by planning your outfits for the week of the launch in advance! There will be moments during that launch that you will need a little extra adrenaline and those special outfits will give you just that!

Clothing is simply a conversation with yourself and an easy way to get excited about getting noticed.

Now that we know that it’s important to get visible and how to start getting noticed, you’re going to need a strategy on how to use your clothes.  Sign up for how to bust the 5 myths that are holding you back from next level visibility HERE!

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women. 

Here on this blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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Using Jewelry to Enhance and Polish Your Outfits

For me, jewelry is very personal. My family owned a jewelry store when I was growing up and I worked corporately in the jewelry industry for 10 years before styling. I have a very emotional connection to jewelry. But as a stylist, jewelry is a powerful accessory with so many benefits and uses. I love getting jewelry as gifts, but I am particular about what I like and want because I know the importance of jewelry to my personal style. Jewelry is personal and can be such an important part of your wardrobe.

Jewelry means so many different things to so many different people. Some people love it, wear it, treasure it. Others don't care about it and can hardly be bothered to wear it. There are also a lot of people who don't know HOW to wear jewelry. Some people wear WAY too much. Others are afraid of looking gaudy or foolish, so they avoid it. 

Why is jewelry so important?

Jewelry can be what completes an outfit. It can tie various pieces together and can make a look appear more polished. It helps to make you look like you got dressed purposefully, you didn't just throw on the first thing you touched. Jewelry makes it look like you put some thought into what you were wearing.

You can use it to accentuate your positive features. When you throw on a long necklace, it draws a person's eyes up and down, making you look thinner and longer right away. It draws attention away from the hips and the center of the body. Shorter necklaces and statement earrings draw attention to the face and away from any other parts of your body. Cuffs, bangles or other bracelets detract attention from your arms and chest and brings it to your hips. Wearing dainty pieces will make you look bigger, and if you're smaller wearing large pieces of jewelry will make you look weighed down. Figure out where you want to draw attention to and decide what you want to achieve with your look before choosing your jewelry. 

Jewelry enhances more than just your features

Jewelry can also save an outfit that's not quite perfect. I've mentioned before that black is not a flattering color on anyone. It drains your face of its natural color. BUT, let's say your favorite dress is black and you're just not willing to give it up. An easy way to improve the dress is to throw on a colorful necklace.

Not only can jewelry impact your look, but it can also affect how you interact with others. If you're a person who likes to make a statement, jewelry is an excellent tool for that. There are enough unique pieces out there for you to find some fantastic pieces that create a statement about who YOU are and what you represent. 

If you're someone who networks for work, charity, or social purposes, your jewelry can also be a conversation starter. For women who find it hard to start a conversation in networking situations, wearing something exciting like a unique piece of jewelry may inspire someone to ask about it, starting a natural conversation.

Don’t be afraid of wearing jewelry!

If you're worried about looking gaudy, or you're afraid of wearing too much jewelry, consider where you're going. You can tone it down for work but if you're going to a wedding or networking/social event, wear a little bit more attention-getting pieces. I’ve created to fabulous tool to ensure your outfits aren’t too much or too plain… but are just right. Click here to check it out.

My last piece of advice is to take some risks! Jewelry doesn't have to match anymore. There used to be a lot of rules against mixing metals or stone colors, but those rules are outdated. You can mix up, just make sure that the mixture makes sense with your outfit. 

I want women to enjoy adding jewelry to their outfits and not see it has a nuisance. Reach out if you want some help sprucing up your wardrobe with jewelry or some new pieces for this season!

Welcome!

I'm Melanie! A personal stylist and confidence coach for high achieving women. 

Here on the blog, I write about style tips, personal branding, outfit creation, and how to use your wardrobe to get noticed. 
Let me know if there's any way I can help you!

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Curious about how a personal stylist can help you? Let's Chat about it. 

On our call we will discuss what's holding you back from being excited about getting dressed and showing up as the leader you were born to be.  We'll discuss your personal challenges and talk about easy solutions.

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